Monday, November 28, 2005

Dani says...

Dani punched Emily in the face yesterday. The seriousness of this crime required a drastic punishment, so we grounded Dani from Emily for the day. She was not allowed to talk to or play with Emily all day long. It nearly killed her -- especially the no talking part. Today, we were out running errands and Dani asked me if she was still grounded from Emily, I told her no, and we talked a little about how bad it was to punch people. After about five minutes of silence, we had the following exchange....

Dani: Chairs aren't people.
Me (puzzled as this is the first thing she's said in several minutes): No, they're not.
Dani: Can I punch a chair?
Me: Well... ok, as long as you aren't punching people.
Dani: Yeah, cause chairs are for punching, not sisters!

Sunday, November 27, 2005

"Mudder Dear I Love You So"

Dani has started to call me "Mother", or to be totally correct, she calls me "Mudder." Don't ask me why (if I knew why Dani did ANYTHING, I'd be a much saner woman!). I noticed today that Evan is starting to call me "Mudder" as well. It makes me feel like my Grandma -- she's the only woman I ever knew whose children called her mother in seriousness. I'm way to young to be a Grandma!!! I would hope that this is only a phase, but we're going on 2 years of her calling Jason "Smoke Detector," so I'm afraid that from now on I'll be answering to "Mudder, Dear."

Saturday, November 26, 2005

Christmas Traditions



One of my favorite traditions, originating in my own childhood, is going out to a tree farm and choosing a Christmas tree and cutting it down ourselves. In my youth, it always seemed to require a 3-hour drive (ok, so it was probably only about an hour, but you know how it is when you're a kid stuck in a car -- especially if you're prone to car-sickness), but as an adult, I understand the the importance of sacrifice when creating traditions -- the agony is the most vivid part of the memory :), and yet if for some reason we couldn't cut down a fresh tree, we kids were bitterly disappointed -- and I still feel that way as an adult! So today we loaded our kids in the car, drove for an hour and a half (real time, not kid time) to get to Sinnissippi Forest, a wonderful tree farm we discovered our first year here in Illinois. The trees don't seem to be as spectacular as the trees we used to get when I was a kid, but it was just as fun to wander through the trees, judging this one and then that one on their individual merits. This one's too short, that one is nicely shaped, but its too wide, this one's crooked, but its the right height, untill we find just the right tree. Emily's keen Christmas tree appreciation narrowed the choices this year to one lovely tree and everyone took a turn sawing until Daddy got serious and cut the whole darn thing down. While their trees don't seem to match those my family used to find in California and Oregon, Sinnissippi does offer a few entertaining activities that weren't available to us all those years ago, namely, free cider, cocoa and popcorn and freshly made apple cider donuts for $6 a dozen -- oh they are just so good! We also can't forget the hayride, courtesy of horses Charley and Marley, complete with jingle bells on their harnesses. I love being able to continue a tradition that means so much to me and to see my own children enjoy it as much as I did with my brothers and sisters long long ago. I hope be to be going to Sinnissippi for many many years to come. I've love to be like the family that lost their Grandma in the forest today, I can just hear it now, "Grandma Restuccia, where are you??? GRANDMA!!!!" And when they've looked behind every tree and checked every hayride, I'm sure they'll find me in the lodge working on my second dozen donuts!

Thursday, November 24, 2005

Happy Thanksgiving


I can't believe how much work Thanksgiving is! This is only the 2nd time in our eight years of marriage that I've done Thanksgiving by myself. I worked frantically for 5 hours and when we finally sat down I thought, "Wait! This is all I made???" The kids thought it was great though, so it was worth it. I let the girls help me make rolls -- they liked it more than playdough. Probaby because it was so much messier! Emily treated us to a Thanksgiving play about how Squanto taught the Pilgrims how to plant corn. Unfortunately, Evan and Dani were more interested in running in circles around Emily than in playing their parts. Not to be defeated by a couple of truly wild Indians, Em improvised by saying, "Pretend they're not doing that, pretend they're teaching me how the plant corn like this." After dinner and the show, we went to have pie with our friends, the Hales, and while we were getting in the car, Dani and Evan both stepped in my pumpkin pie! Somehow, I didn't kill them and after a few hours I calmed down enough to preserve the memory (which I'm sure will get funnier with passing years) with a picture. At least half of the pie was edible. That's better than the year I left the pumpkin pie on top of the car while I put the girls in their carseats and then drove away, only to discover my mistake when the pie shot across the windsheild and into the street. Yeah, that time, the whole pie was ruined. Well, I hope all your pies are yummy and intact and that your Thanksgiving was as eventful as ours!





Tuesday, November 22, 2005

Pretty Baby



We have survived the worst of having a new baby. Brendan is 11 weeks old now, and I'm starting to enjoy him much more. He's got a beautiful smile and melts my heart when he coos at me. Am I happy I had him? ABSOLUTELY! Am I still happy he's our last baby? ABSOLUTELY!

Superheroes


Dani and Evan are WAAYYY into superheroes. The superheroes du jour are the Power Rangers, much to my dismay! Evan loves the Red Ranger and Dani the Green Ranger. Imagine my surprise when Emily requested a Pink Ranger costume when we were digging through 70% off Halloween costumes at Target! I gave in and for the next week, we had a house full of Power Rangers whose mission it was to chase Dad in circles for what seemed like hours. What a good sport our Daddy is!

Troublemaker


Apparently, Dani isn't the ONLY one who can make trouble in our family! I was talking to Jason in his office the other afternoon and when I came out, I found Evan trying to make his own chocolate milk.......... without the milk.

Jewels from Dani

Dani gave me another little gem today -- our conversation went something like this --

Dani: Mom, I want to play a computer game.
Me: Dani, I'm using the computer right now, you'll have to wait until I'm done.
Dani: You have five minutes, Mom, then its my turn.
Me: Hey, you're not the boss here. You will wait until I say its your turn.
Dani: (falling to the ground dramatically) PLEASE MOM! I just want to be a little bit the boss!

I found this some what enlightening as yesterday her psychologist pointed out this very tendency in how she deals with me. Oh Dani, I'm learning to understand you -- before you know I'll be able to read you like a book! And then we shall start to channel your powers for good instead of evil!!!!!!

Sunday, November 20, 2005

The Beginning

For ages I have envied my friend Shanna's cute little family website (www.thehenrichsens.com). What a great way to keep a family history! I finally got Jason to show me how to do it and now I'm on my way! I was going to start doing this at the first of the year, but then I'll miss recording the holidays! So here is my first post and now I have to get myself to bed so something can happen tomorrow that I can write about!